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Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves:Transforming parent-child relationships from reaction and struggle to freedom, power and joy

Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves:Transforming parent-child relationships from reaction and struggle to freedom, power and joy

Author: Naomi Aldort, PhD
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Every parent would happily give up ever scolding, punishing or threatening if she only knew how to ensure that her toddler/child/teen would thrive and act responsibly without such painful measures. Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves is the answer to this universal wish. It is not about gentle ways to control a child, but about a way of being and of understanding a child so she/he can be the best of herself, not because she fears you or seeks your approval but because she wants to, of her own free will.Aldort's guidance takes the struggle out of parenting. The book is full of real life stories, often leaving the reader moved to tears or laughter and relieved to discover that there is a kinder way. The SALVE communication formula has been praised for providing a hybrid of The Work of Byron Katie and Nonviolent Communication. It gives parents the tools to move beyond their initial unproductive reaction, to a response that is connecting and empowering to the child and to themselves.


"The Ph.D. by the author's name in this book is an error. Naomi Aldort has no degree in psychology. Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves is a parenting self-help book with ideas developed by the author based on her own studies and experience. The error will be corrected in future printings of the book."

Reviews

Naomi Aldort is an eloquent proponent of the simple idea that children need love and validation, rather than control and behavior modification. The result is the disappearance of power struggles and the emergence of closeness and cooperation. Aldort teaches parents how to listen effectively when children express strong feelings, and how to recover their ability to love, validate and offer comfort to their children when they, themselves, are upset.

-Nappa Awards

Stock Information

General Fields

  • : 9781887542326
  • : Book Publishers Network
  • : Book Publishers Network
  • : January 2006
  • : United Kingdom
  • : books

Special Fields

  • : Naomi Aldort, PhD
  • : Paperback
  • : 106
  • : 649.1
  • : 280